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GET USED TO IT!

Forty years of queer life captured on film, brought into the present through live storytelling, history, community, and conversation.

GET USED TO IT!

GET USED TO IT! is a one-person multimedia performance built from over four decades of queer life documented firsthand by Allegra.

Created and performed by Allegra, the show weaves together short videos created from their original film footage, photography, and live storytelling to create “our news”—a record of queer lives, communities, resistance, and change, from the AIDS crisis and early activism to marriage equality and today’s evolving queer and trans communities.

By bringing these stories forward, GET USED TO IT! transforms personal footage into a shared history—one that connects generations and reminds us that we are part of an ongoing story.

What's the show?

In GET USED TO IT!, short videos (2–4 minutes each) drawn from over four decades of Allegra’s work are introduced live, providing the stories and context behind the images. Structured in two acts with an intermission and followed by a Q&A, the performance creates space for conversation, connection, and shared experience across generations.

For over forty years, I’ve documented the stories and moments that make up queer history—capturing lives, movements, and cultural shifts as they happened, and preserving them through film and ephemera. It is the evidence of our living.

Archive Highlights

AIDS Crisis & ACT UP Era (late ’80s–’90s)
On-the-ground footage from protests, direct action, and a community fighting for survival—when just having a video camera was rare.

Women’s March & Early Reproductive Rights Activism (1989)
Early footage capturing intersectional activism and the presence of queer communities within broader movements.

MTV News Years
Behind-the-scenes and on-camera interviews from a pivotal moments in MTV's history.

Underground Queer Culture & “Girl Happy” (1990s)
A portrait of lesbian and queer life in New York before mainstream visibility, when community was built in bars, streets, and chosen family.

Trans Youth Story (1990s)
One of the earliest documented stories of transgender teenagers navigating identity, family, and survival—decades before mainstream awareness.

Ex-Gay / Conversion Therapy Movement
Rare footage from inside the movement, later connected to the public unraveling of Exodus—demonstrating the power of documentation to create change.

Marriage Equality – California (2008)
Footage from the brief window when same-sex marriage was legalized before Proposition 8—capturing couples at the moment history shifted.

Assimilation Era (2010s)
A look at the period when it felt like rights had been won—and what was lost, gained, or misunderstood during that time.

Queer Life Now (2020s–Present)
Ongoing documentation of a new generation—artists, activists, and communities celebrating queerness today.

Photos and Video Stills

Since my early twenties, I've documented queer life, activism, culture, and community. The images and video on this site represent only a small portion of that work. Most of the archive remains intentionally offline to preserve its integrity and ensure these stories are experienced with the context and care they deserve.

If you're interested in exhibitions, screenings, research, licensing, or archival collaborations, please get in touch to discuss access to the broader collection.

Contact

Reach out to chat about the archive.

Email

allegra@getused2it.com

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